Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Thursday, May 30, 2024

Just a Teensy Update

 Hi friends. It's been... a while.

Here's a super quick rundown in case you haven't seen me on any other type of social media over the last seven years:


2018

A very weird year, but eventually I began dating my now-husband Ney
(I had met him in Cambodia 5 years before - see if you can spot him in this post ;) - hint: I referred to him as the "mission youth pastor")



2019

Married my husband in Walla Walla before we moved out to Berrien Springs, Michigan for him to return to school at Andrews University.



2020

Had our first baby (during a pandemic).




2021

Moved to Montana for my husband's first pastoral position. We left some amazing friends back in Michigan!


2022

Had our second baby (to put it very short!).


2023

Moved to my husband's second pastoral position. Also, we took a trip to Cambodia and Thailand for the first time since before we got together. Ney hadn't been back to Asia since he had originally left seven years before! I hadn't been there in about six years. And the kids had never met their Cambodian family. We loved our trip and already miss the warm weather and the beauty of the Southeast Asian culture.


2024

Lots has already happened, but one of my biggest bucket list items finally came true: I saw a terrific aurora borealis (northern lights) show right off my back porch!! It was incredible and I hear it was the best in 20 years so I'm very glad I was able to see it. Additionally, this summer, Ney will finally be sworn in as a US citizen. We will finally all use the same passports, which is so exciting and reassuring. I have a feeling we'll do a bit more international travel once that happens!


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And here we are. Life is very different from what it was ten years ago in Cambodia! I miss those days and we still hope to someday return to Southeast Asia. But for now, God has stationed us in Montana and we are (still) learning to connect with the people here.

Ney, while busy with his pastor's work and of course his family, is busy working on his doctorate in Intercultural Studies from Andrews University. I am also working on school as I never finished it when I was younger - I'm doing a BA in Graphic Design and Media Arts through Southern New Hampshire University. (Totally recommend it.) I'm also working on the side, though it's hard to fit much onto my already busy plate.

Our kids are still little but they are growing up so fast. They love hanging out with their friends at and outside of church.

Lately I dropped social media because, ugh. It's so annoying and I was due to do that a long time ago. I do miss people though so I'm going to try and share here occasionally just for fun.

If you are still following blogs (who does anymore?) I'd love to hear from you. Drop a comment below to let me know what you are up to!

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

One hundred - year in review


What does one say for their hundredth blog post? That dilemma has probably been why I haven't written anything for six months. That, and the fact that life becomes normal so things don't seem interesting enough to write about. But here I am now, just in time for Christmas. It's about time for me to consider everything that has happened over the last year as we gear up for 2017. I'll share with you some of the most memorable things that happened this last year...

In January, my friend Jeanelle and I prepared for and put on a missions benefit concert, to fundraise for her upcoming trip to the Philippines, and sponsorships for students in Cambodia. We had fun organizing a youth octet, which has since sung another song and is planning another special music for next year. January was also a month of adjusting to life with my mom being out of commission after her emergency surgery, and to the thought of her only having a few months to a few years left to live.

February brought more doctor appointments with my mom and grandma. I spent a good amount of time in doctor's offices, it seemed. I also began the search for a job in the area, though I still wasn't sure of what the future held. Later in the month, my brother gave me a birthday present in taking me up to Inchelium to visit my YD family, which was nice since I hadn't been there since the previous summer.

In March, there were a lot of yard sale preparations. Some cousins put my parents in charge of an estate sale for a family member, and there was a lot of stuff to go through. Once that large sale was over, they donated the remainder to me for a mission benefit sale. Again, my friend Jeanelle and I worked together and split the money between our mission projects. Our Pathfinder district also held a Pinewood Derby during March. My car was great in aesthetics but unfortunately didn't perform so well in racing! My YD friends invited me to go with them to the Oregon coast for a staff retreat, since I had done a bunch of proofreading for them. It was both an enjoyable and eye-opening experience. We spent the weekend in a beautiful, huge, old-fashioned house a few miles from the coast, which was a lot of fun.

During April, our church hosted Northwest Youth Conference (our youth group was given charge of it last year). The speakers were inspiring and I really enjoyed being able to spend time with my dear friend Samantha who stayed with me over the weekend. April also brought the arrival of my best friend's first baby. I was super excited because the little guy is the closest I've ever gotten to a niece or nephew.

May was a month for Pathfinder events. Between lots of drill team practices, the Pathfinder Fair, and a spring campout at Camp MiVoden over Memorial Day weekend, there was a lot that went on. A fair amount of stress, too, but it was a lot of fun. And the spring campout ended up being quite relaxing even for staff members, so it was a win-win time for everyone.

In June, Jeanelle and I coordinated again and hosted a tea party for the little girls in our church. It was so much fun to decorate and have the little girls dress up and have their hair done. I hope it can be a yearly occurrence but we will see! I also found out about a WWU student who had plans to go to Cambodia as a teacher at WPY, so I arranged a visit with him so I could give him a few cards to send over there, and to answer his questions. It was so good to be able to share as much as I knew with him. He has since traveled to Cambodia and seems to be having a good time there. I'm looking forward to talking with him again once he returns next summer. We had an investiture for our Pathfinder kids, and I also went to a rainy church campout on Sabbath morning, which was actually quite warm and cozy because of all the friends who were there.

I started out July with sub-teaching in our church's junior Sabbath School class, which was a lot of fun since it had been a couple of years since I had taught, and I was using YD materials again. I decided then that I wanted to get back into it again. My family all left for a trip to Alaska, so it was just the dog and I at home for a week or two. During their absence, I ended up with a job! This job seemed like direct leading from God because it came right when I was ready for it and it came without any intentional doing on my part. It's also right where my expertise is - graphic design and working directly with people. God is so good, and I still enjoy working away at this job. We finished off July with a Pathfinder high-points trip to Camp MiVoden and Silverwood. I hadn't been on a roller coaster since I was 12, and that was only once, so it was quite an adventure. The girls convinced me to go on two different rides (I rode one of those twice). They certainly enjoyed themselves, and I did too.

August brought the purchase of a car. It was so good to finally have my own wheels again! And again, God was good in bringing it when I needed it most, without any doing on my part, and with very little debt (which was paid off quickly). I'm thankful to both of my brothers for discovering it, traveling 45 minutes to look at it since I didn't have the time to, and bringing it home for me to drive. We took a trip to Portland/Vancouver just a couple of days after with that car, to see special family friends whose missionary son had returned for a short visit. His mission report was an inspiration, as well, and it was good to see him again.

In September, we entered stuff in the county fair and spent some time there. I went to the Pathfinder Camporee up at Farragut State Park and attained one of my life goals: I was finally invested as a Master Guide. Our dear Walker dog also had to be put down, which we still haven't quite recovered from.

During October, my coworkers and I made a trip to Portland for a tradeshow, which was quite educational and fun to see all the ways we could do things at our sign shop. October also brought a family reunion. It was the first I'd actually been able to attend for many years, since I've always been gone when the family got together. I went to the Pathfinder leadership retreat at Camp MiVoden and had a very relaxing time and enjoyed seeing Pathfinder friends and learning new things. I began teaching in the junior Sabbath School class. It's been neat to get to know each of the students better as I interact with them more. Our church also held a series of meetings, studying the book of Revelation in-depth. I was able to go to several of them before I got too busy to attend.

November brought an induction of several new Pathfinders to our club. We now have about 30 kids, which is quite a few more than last year! I took a trip by myself up to Canada to visit my best friend and her little family, as well as her husband's family who are good friends too. It was great to visit Fountainview as well and see a couple of kids there that I know. I got lots of baby time in, which was fun but just made me miss it more when I left. :) My brothers and I spent some quality time together when we went to find a Christmas tree, and later I learned how to shoot skeet with a 12 gauge shotgun. Both were enjoyable experiences!

Now that December is here, we're full on with music practices for Christmas programs. I am in two separate programs and have eight different pieces I'm part of. It makes for lots of evenings filled up! But it's also great to spend lots of extra time with my friends. We've had a lot of snow this December. The kids have enjoyed snow days at school and we've had to cancel Pathfinder events because of the roads being so unpredictable. So far we've all survived and it's still beautiful outside because the temperatures have been so freezing cold. My mom went to a couple of doctor appointments yesterday and got very good reports from them both, about her cancer. It seems that things are getting smaller - and she's only been doing natural treatments! It's a great Christmas present, for sure.

The year has whizzed by and it seems that every week has been full, but as I look back, I see just how good God has been through it all. I'm so thankful for His leading, even if it's difficult to see at times. He is incredible in His goodness and love.

"Oh, taste and see that the LORD is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him!" (Psalm 34:8, ESV).

Friday, January 22, 2016

God can be trusted

The last six months have turned my life upside down, like nothing else. A few of my worst dreams have come true: 1) not knowing what to do next in life, 2) having to be separated by an ocean from some of my best friends and "children," and 3) my mom being diagnosed with stage 4 cancer (you can read her story here). I've had to battle temptations more head-on than ever before, go through some measure of reverse culture shock, and wonder what on earth my purpose in life is anymore. But God is good; He has continued to direct and guide me, even if only in the tiniest of increments at times. As I look back over the last half of 2015 and these first few weeks of the new year, I can clearly see His faithfulness (exhibit A being that my first worst dream was a key lifesaver when the third worst dream happened). My problems don't all appear to be solved now, but I know God can be trusted to carry out His perfect purpose. I am so thankful for Him and the incredible power He gives!

I discovered this song sometime this week, and it's been such an encouragement to me. I thought I'd share it with you...


This Trial

Verse 1
When your faith is running low, and you just can't seem to figure it out,
You know you should keep walking, but you just don't see how.
Don't doubt in the dark what He's said in the light -
He's still the same God in the day or the night!

Verse 2
When your life's a question mark, and your answers are coming out wrong,
You know that God is working, but it just seems so long,
Don't give up on God when He's working on you!
It's Jesus the Son that He's forming in you!

Chorus
This trial won't define you; it will only refine you.
You know there's a plan, though you don't see it now.
Your God will not forget you; He'll eventually direct you.
So don't be afraid because you can know:
Your heart may be wounded, all your plans adjusted, your faith may be tested,
But God can be trusted.

Bridge
Finish the course God has laid at your feet.
Never give less than your best!
Pour out your heart, take one day at a time;
God will do the rest!

(C) 2011 Ben Everson Music - www.beneverson.com

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Summer/Fall 2015

This year has gone by all in a rush. So many things happened. Here's a quick catchup and update...

May

We jumped into school life after our long holiday, and definitely kept busy. Both classes and outside-of-school things were on the agenda.
A last-minute, surprise birthday party with "the gang"
for one of my students (who is in the dark shadows on the left).
The Grade 8 Tech Studies kids made alphabets, took pictures
of them, and handcrafted messages on the computer.
Tim & Wendy's house got torn down because of termites,
and they began to recreate a new one.
I always enjoy spending time over at the orphanage.
This is Mat Sitha, at house 11, making bok svay (pounded green mango).
Random violin practice. Hey, whatever does the trick!

June

More of the same...
Hanging out at dorm study hall.

Shannon and Sreya got engaged over one of the holidays.

We had a special baptism ceremony.
There were about 66 baptisms, it was special to see!
Most of my "gang" got baptized. Special guys!

Another birthday-cake celebration.

Laura and I tested out making some Khmer food.
It turned out yummy (though we've practiced more since then)!

July

July was a month of wrapping up classes, writing exams, giving exams, packing for home, and wrapping up all sorts of loose ends. It flew by so fast, even though at times it felt like it was going slow. And all those goodbyes at the end... whew. Not so much fun.

A birthday party for a student's little sister.
With my fellow volunteers. Fun bunch, these are!

This smiley boy hung outside of my office window a lot!
At the last Pathfinder outing of the school year.
Grade 7 class party just before exams.
Popcorn, bread, and old grade 6 videos made it lots of fun.
Three sweet girlies I love!
Exam time in Grade 8.
Another party - this time after we finished exams!
Lots of goodbyes! One of my grade 12 students.
A couple of fun-loving grade 11 guys.
One of my grade 7 girls.
One of my little grade 7 guys whose family moved away after I left.
A bouncy grade 7 guy!
More goodbyes at my house...
Even the little ones came.
It was not cool to leave. Even the sky cried...
Back home with family at last.
Peaches!!
  
I spent a weekend at YD Camp.
It had been two whole summers since I'd been back!

August

Fun times at ASI, seeing and catching up with so many old friends!

On a walk with my sweet doggy.

Enjoying my cardmaking stuff again...
Every Sunday night I hang out at my brother's apartment
and play games. Dutch Blitz is our go-to favorite.

Our friends had a double birthday party - ocean theme!
September

I went to the county fair a couple of times.
Julianna and I had a good time watching part of the horse show!

Great Sabbath evenings spent with friends...

Kids, kids, and more kids + Legos = great fun.

October

Laura and I have enjoyed FaceTiming more often these days.

A few of my Pathfinder girls at the UCC Pathfinder Camporee.
Christmas is already at Walmart!! I'm so excited!

Now I'm in Canada at my friends' home, enjoying a nice long visit. As for the future... it's still unknown (whose future isn't?) but I'm doing what I can at home while praying for God to lead in the next few months. If things work out I may end up back in Cambodia in the near future. We'll see!

Friday, November 21, 2014

Of hard and easy days

With my WPY volunteer friends, on a short visit to the Philippines.

As I was washing the dishes one day, I began thinking...

Why is it that I'm always so much closer to God on the days when it's hard? The easier days when I don't have as much to do, or I can actually try and relax a little bit, is when my hold on God seems to loosen. I know that trials bring us closer to God, and I am learning to appreciate them for that purpose. But what of the days of peace? Why don't I connect with Him as well during those times? How can I change those days so they're a benefit instead of a hindrance?

Then another thought:

That's what praise and thanksgiving are for. 

I'm supposed to simply trust and hang onto God on the hard days, praising Him just the same. But on the seemingly easier days (when it's actually spiritually harder!), I can use that space to thank Him for all He's done in the harder times.

"We have nothing to fear for the future, except as we shall forget the way the Lord has led us, and his teaching in our past history" (RH, October 12, 1905).

"Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice" (Philippians 4:4).

Photo credit: Erick Juanich